
About the podcast…
Launched in January 2025, How We Met is a non-narrated podcast that shares real stories of how LGBTQ+ couples fell in love, in their own words. This project aims to serve two purposes: Amplify queer joy and serve as a historical record for queer people’s experiences, across generations, through the lens of love.
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“You ever see someone and you just feel this immediate familiarity? I thought I was crazy. I saw you and thought, this is someone who’s going to be in my life for a long time.”
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Alex + Danika: Wanna Play Hot Seat?
Alex and Danika broke a cardinal college rule: Don’t fall in love with your roommate. On the first episode of How We Met: A Queer Love Archive, hear how this couple went from college sweethearts to wives.

Charles + Martha: Finding Your True Self
Sometimes love looks like sitting across the bar from someone for 10 years until one day one of them finally asks, “Are you ever going to ask me out?” For Philadelphia couple Charles and Martha, that question was the start of a romance still going strong 12 years later.

Jerry + Patricio: Parallel Lives
Who knew a flirty exchange at a water fountain in the middle of a gay New Year’s Eve party could lead to a 23-year-globetrotting romance? On the season one finale, meet couple Jerry and Patricio who found passion, adventure, and a lifelong companion in each other at a New Year’s Eve party in 2002.
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